One of the most interesting categories of sex toys to come along in recent years has been clitoral suction. These toys, which are designed to simulate the sucking sensation of oral sex, are usually battery-operated and come with various settings that let you tailor the experience to your liking. A sex suction toy works by modulating air pressure using an internal diaphragm. Most models feature a mouth that sits over the clitoral ridge, with an opening that rests against the underside of the head of the penis (in some cases, there are also models that don’t use the entire head of the penis, including the ArcWave Ion). When you press the toy against the clitoral ridge, the motor inside the device creates high and low air pressure changes that cause the suck-like sensation. The most common material for these toys is silicone, which feels great on the skin and can be sterilized for safety.
Most sex suction toys offer a range of vibration modes and intensity levels. While some, such as the Lelo Sona and the Womanizer Premium 2, are known for their powerful vibrations that can elicit orgasms even when it’s pressed tightly against the clitoral ridge, there are also options that are less intense and can be enjoyed by beginners.
If you’re a first-timer to clitoral stimulation, we recommend starting with the lower settings and gradually working your way up to see what your body can handle. Some clitoral suction toys, like the Romp Switch, We-Vibe Melt, and the Womanizer Duo 2, are quieter than others, which can be beneficial for people who prefer to experience the sensation without distraction or interruption.
It’s important to note that your clitoral ridge and nipples can change in size and shape over time, so you might need to adjust the toy you’re using. You can do this by either increasing or decreasing the pressure or changing the location of the suction hole, depending on your needs.
As with any sex toy, it’s essential to lube up before you try your new sex toy. We recommend a water-based lube that will help you slide the toy into place and provide the best possible experience. If you plan on sharing your clitoral suction toy with a partner, it’s best to use a non-toxic, alcohol-free lube to prevent irritation. In addition, it’s a good idea to clean your toy regularly for hygienic reasons. Most sex toys can be easily cleaned by running them under hot water or placing them in the sink with warm, soapy water. However, you should avoid boiling your toy as this could damage the mechanism or contaminate the inner surface of the toy. Alternatively, you can use the cleaning kit that comes with most toy products or simply purchase a bottle of water-based sex fluid to clean your toy between uses. This is particularly important if your toy is made with hard plastic.